Matrimony Voice

I hope everyone aware of childhood marriage. Hence both the bride and groom are not young enough to decide what is wrong and right, parents take each and every decision from choosing with whom you will marriage to take each and every decision in your marital life. It was an old ritual in Indian culture which is not exists now. The time has changed now. Now marriage happen in perfect age and bride & groom takes decision whether they will get marry with each other. At this age, brides and grooms are not lack in any fields from education to knowledge in comparison than elder persons. Still then also some old hypocrisy are not changing. Parents are not taking right decision to choose the perfect brides or grooms for their sons/daughters. They are not giving priority to bride and groom. In many cases brides are getting marriage with lot of pressures without their wishes. This causes dissatisfaction in marital life. Another reason is dowry system. In many cases parents force their son to marry with the girl whose parent can provide good mount of cash. It hampers the marriage life of both groom and bride. Another reason is girls’ qualification. Everyone aspire to get a qualified girl, but not ready to give her freedom. If one educate girl give her opinion then no one ready to listen her. At the end the quarrel happen from fish pin. If somebody get to choose his/her life partner at his/her own wished rather than bargaining the qualification and money then the chances of dissatisfaction of marital life will definitely reduced. Despite of choosing the money, if the parents choose a culture and good character bride or groom and in the groom house, if the laws and relatives accept the girl as a member not a stranger then the dissatisfaction will definitely vanish.