Matrimony Voice

Understanding is the vital part in everyone marriage life. Marriage is a big responsibility. If the marriage life glows then it brings happiness in the family. The house turns into heaven. Here below I have jot down some responsibility for both brides and grooms to maintain a happy marriage life. Try to follow these which will definitely help you in your marriage life.

For Husband:-

1. Happily eat the food prepared by your wife. If you like the foods then don’t hesitate to give her compliment.

2. Describe the goodness of your wife in front of your relatives and parents. Don’t doubt your wife in any circumstances.

3. Sex with your wife once in a week. Don’t go in front of your wife by consuming alcohol or tobacco.

4. Everyday pass some valuable time with your wife. Help her by working with her to finish house hold work once in a week.

5. Discuss to improve the home and education of children with your wife and don’t give false commitment which you can’t fulfill.

6. Always take decision from your wife before deciding anything to do for family for the shake of loss, profit. Happy or sad.

7. Always remember your wife birth date or marriage anniversary and present her a small her big gift according to your capacity.

8. Always try to discuss Gita, Bhagabat with your wife and refrain your self to watch provocative movie with your wife.

For Wife:-

1. Believe in your husband always. Don’t disclose the privacy of your home with outsiders.

2. Always keep clean and maintain your beauty to attract your husband

3. Always keep active and energetic.

4. Always try to make your hubby happy

5. Avoid yourself to evaluate the lack or pitfall of your husband and showing him wrong in every work

6. Keep house clean and tidy.

7. Help your hubby to complete the work according to your knowledge and capacity.

8. Always worship the god and obey the culture and festival with belief.

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Fate is another reason which can cause dissatisfaction in marital life. We have an old idioms in Oriya is

Daiba daudi manias gaai, jeniki tanai teniki jaai.

It means, whatever will happened it’s already pre written by god. To get rid from all reverse and bad condition we do horoscope matching from ancient culture. Horoscope match analyze from your date of birth and the location of all planets at the time of your birth. Everything is written in your horoscope, which is decided by renowned astrologer and Brahmin pandita. Horoscope match reveal that whether you can get happy marriage life, giving birth, sexual life and prosperity. If the bride and grooms horoscope don’t match then resolution evaluate else marriage not happen. However now a days in many cases brides parents are providing wrong horoscope. Grooms parents are not matching horoscope for the shake of rich brides and handsome dowry. In many causes marriages not happened with all the ritual and worship. Marriages are getting happened on wrong date and wrong time. No one believe in god and the ritual of Gita and Bhagabata. In marriage everyone is involve in alcohol and non-veg. No-one faith in worship and mantras. If the marriage happens with all the ritual which has written in Oriya purana then the reverse effect in marital life will definitely reduce and broth bride and groom can live happy and healthy marital life.

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I hope everyone aware of childhood marriage. Hence both the bride and groom are not young enough to decide what is wrong and right, parents take each and every decision from choosing with whom you will marriage to take each and every decision in your marital life. It was an old ritual in Indian culture which is not exists now. The time has changed now. Now marriage happen in perfect age and bride & groom takes decision whether they will get marry with each other. At this age, brides and grooms are not lack in any fields from education to knowledge in comparison than elder persons. Still then also some old hypocrisy are not changing. Parents are not taking right decision to choose the perfect brides or grooms for their sons/daughters. They are not giving priority to bride and groom. In many cases brides are getting marriage with lot of pressures without their wishes. This causes dissatisfaction in marital life. Another reason is dowry system. In many cases parents force their son to marry with the girl whose parent can provide good mount of cash. It hampers the marriage life of both groom and bride. Another reason is girls’ qualification. Everyone aspire to get a qualified girl, but not ready to give her freedom. If one educate girl give her opinion then no one ready to listen her. At the end the quarrel happen from fish pin. If somebody get to choose his/her life partner at his/her own wished rather than bargaining the qualification and money then the chances of dissatisfaction of marital life will definitely reduced. Despite of choosing the money, if the parents choose a culture and good character bride or groom and in the groom house, if the laws and relatives accept the girl as a member not a stranger then the dissatisfaction will definitely vanish.

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Before marriage everyone dreams to live a happy and satisfactory marriage life. However after marriage martial life seems very difficult and unsatisfactory from many causes. In many cases the situation turns into so worsen which comes to end on diverse, suicide or extramarital affairs. So, what’s the reason of all these adverse condition?

There are four basic reasons which lackness can destroy your happy marriage life.

1. Reality

2. Fate

3. Understanding

4. Sex knowledge

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